It happens to most of us, from time to time. The older we get, the quicker we recover, usually. Yet, it kinda takes the wind out of us for a while, especially if we have no way of proving we meant well or did what we hoped was the right thing to do.
The secret of “getting over” such situations is to forgive ourselves for not being a mind reader and forgive our accuser for misunderstanding our good intentions. No one said that would be easy. It isn’t easy! Yet, with the help of our Heavenly Father, it is possible!
If anyone suffered greatly because many misunderstood him, it was Jesus Christ. There are no Scripture verses that discuss His hurt feelings or His being resentful. He spent much time in prayer and received power from His Father. We are offered the same option. It isn’t always a “quick fix,” but give it a little time and it works well.